FAQ
What exactly is de-armouring?
De-armoring is when I help my submissive release emotional or physical tension they're holding onto. I use techniques like massage or guided relaxation to help them let go of their defenses and become more open and vulnerable. This strengthens our trust and connection, allowing them to fully embrace their role.
Whats prostate play?
Prostate play is about stimulating the prostate gland, which can lead to intense pleasure for men. The prostate is located a few inches inside the rectum, towards the front. Well start with plenty of lube and ensure you're relaxed and comfortable. I begin by gently massaging the area externally and, if you're comfortable, move to internal stimulation. It's important to go slow and communicate throughout the process to ensure it feels good for you. This can lead to powerful sensations and even orgasms different from the usual ones. It's all about exploring and finding what works best for you.
What do i think is the appeal in being dominated that make people willing to pay for it?
I like to think of it more as we help people help themselves, i am merely helping you work through personal issues, i do not solve them. one of the most important parts of my job is to not only provide aftercare to make sure my sub is in a good headspace when they leave me, but to encourage them to think about what they can do to better take care of themselves, i also encourage them to journal on what emotions are occurring during our sessions to help work through those emotions.
The proportion or category of individuals who, in my opinion would enjoy domme play but are unaware of it?
I believe that anyone can and should try
BDSM as a whole at one point, so long as it is done properly and with consentl So,
100!
A tip i’d offer to single individuals or couples thinking about hiring a dominatrix?
Come with your own ideas, but remember that some things are better as fantasy: in other words listen to your Domme's guidance, it's there for a reason. I have my own guidelines and rules, and while being suspended from your apartment ceiling with homemade hemp rope may sound great, it really becomes an awkward insurance call waiting to
happen. My other piece of advice would be communication and agreement between all parties involved is a necessary part, if one party is even slightly unsure, it's a no. Last but not least, I am a person myself, not an object for you to use, respect me as such.
How do clients typically pay, and what's the process for scheduling a session?
To ensure security, privacy, and a smooth booking experience, I have updated my payment process. I now accept sign-up fees exclusively in cryptocurrency. This protects both you and me, keeps transactions discreet, and ensures that your commitment to a session is clear.
How to Schedule a Session:
1. Initial Contact: Introduce yourself briefly and indicate your experience level and the type of session or training you’re interested in.
2. Payment of Sign-Up Fee: Once we’ve confirmed your interest, the sign-up fee must be submitted via crypto. This secures your session and demonstrates seriousness.
3. Confirmation & Scheduling: After payment, we confirm the date, time, and details of your session. At this stage, we can also plan recurring sessions if desired.
4. Session: Arrive prepared, on time, and ready to enter the dynamic. All rules, boundaries, and expectations are reviewed before the scene begins. Using crypto ensures that transactions are fast.
What are some common things clients want to know about what happens during a session or what they should bring/prepare?
Preparing for a session:
Arrive ready to submit, with an open mind and a willingness to follow my rules. Wear whatever I specify or come clean and well-groomed. Clearly communicate your limits beforehand. Bring only what I’ve approved; I provide everything needed for the session. Expect activities like bondage, discipline, and verbal dominance, all conducted safely and within agreed boundaries. Being prepared ensures you get the full experience of the dynamic under my guidance.
I'd like to address a common misconception about BDSM
That consent is not the most important part and that the dominant party is the one in control. Every rule (within actions I have offered), as to what occurs to the submissive is decided by the submissive only and those limits are set in stone. I, though I am viewed as the one in control, can and will only go as far as my sub has consented to allow me. Even if my submissive changes the rules, I require a 48 hour thinking period before I will allow a change in any rules to account for what sounds good 'in the moment' but is later regretted.
Beyond the ordinary
Your journey begins here. Step into the world of Marisela and discover what I offer. Every experience I create is guided by intention, presence, and a commitment to delivering something unforgettable—pushing boundaries and helping you confront and destroy your fears. I’m glad you’re here.